Leaving is
as easy as staying.

What gets deleted

Straight away: your name, email address and date of birth are cleared, every signed-in device is signed out, and your Secret Wishes are deleted.

If you are connected to a partner, that shared space ends for both of you at the same moment — your answers, memories, photos and challenge progress stop being reachable by either person.

What remains of the record is kept for thirty days, so a deletion made by mistake can be looked into, and is then permanently removed.

What your partner keeps

Their account stays theirs, and so do their own Secret Wishes, which become private again. Anything the two of you made together goes, for both of you.

Delete your account

We ask for your password because nothing here should be easier than signing in. This cannot be undone.

From inside the app

The same thing lives at Profile → Account → Delete my account. If you only want to leave a relationship rather than leave Us, Profile → Our space → Disconnect from partner ends the shared space and keeps your account.

Something else

To ask for a copy of your data, or to have something corrected rather than removed, write to hello@ilesa.tech from the address on your account.